This was my first full multi-night vacation where I presented the whole time as my true self. It was definitely a safe area in general, but still, it was a huge step. I can’t say how amazing it was and how wonderful I felt.

We had many wonderful encounters with people. One woman talked with us for a while about her own friend’s trans child and in the end, we all ended up hugging. It was so powerful. My heart was soaring. I was able to go shopping for jewelry, clothing, and shoes. And no real hassles or concerns, even from older and younger people. It just worked out. I was just a person at the beach, living her life and not bothering anyone. This is how the world can be and should be.

I did get some glances from a folks here and there, but only once was it bad, and I missed most of it as I was facing a different direction. But some privileged wannabe decided it would be fun to relive her high school bitch phase. She stopped right by our table and dramatically turned to her date and whispered and pointing at me. Probably because I had a killer set of red sandal heels and looked amazing both inside and out. My honey called her out in a nice way and she didn’t know how to respond to being called out and just left.

I won’t end on a downer. We saw old friends. Some knew about me, others didn’t. But, I got hugs and love and just was seen for who I am. I really needed that vacation and it came through for me. 🩷🏳️‍⚧️

p.s. OMG, packing was a pain in the tush. 4 pairs of shoes, multiple outfits, makeup, jewelry case, etc. But, I used everything. Important lesson for people of all genders, break in your shoes before doing 5 miles walks! Or, come prepared with band-aids I had some so I was good to go.